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Tips for Removing Mildew Smell From Clothing (particularly children’s clothing :-) )

Sometimes life becomes overwhelming. When that happens, things start to change. We loosen our standards. We ease up on routines. We get distracted by whatever is apparently on fire at the moment. That’s life sometimes! And it is entirely understandable.

There are some tell-tale signs of a dysfunctional system. One of them is odor from rot or mildew. The good news is, you can fix it!!! πŸ™‚ If you want to, that is. If you care enough to spend the necessary time, pay attention, become more mindful and present. But sometimes the odor has been there so long that you don’t even realize how badly you smell. To make matters worse, if you are the elected homemaker, you are likely inflicting the mildew smell on those for whom you care. I think that’s probably why it’s so crucial that the person doing the laundry in the home is the person best suited to the task, i.e., the person with the better sense of smell, the more sensitive person, the more attentive, thoughtful, caring person. Before you know it, things will be smelling April fresh in no time! πŸ™‚

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Watch John Oliver’s take on the 2020 election results.

Nice to see that wit still exists out there, beyond my retarded, temporary home. πŸ˜‰ <3

But anyway! πŸ™‚ There is a lot of heavy stuff in this video that should make you think about things. We have a lot of work to do, folks! But it will be fun! Let’s just get to it.

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2020-11-09 @ 17:51; New episode of “I’m The Only Person Listening To This”; Listen now at http://anchor.fm/hourback/ ; πŸ™‚πŸ•ŠοΈπŸ•‰οΈπŸ’œπŸŒπŸŒŒπŸ‘½πŸ––

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Life update for Friday, November, 2020

Well! Things have gotten more complicated. πŸ™‚

I spent last Wednesday night in Rankin County jail for allegedly violating a restraining order. On top of that, I was slapped with a trespassing charge. And on top of all of that, it is asking that our entire divorce agreement, which was already skewed immensely in its favor, to be rewritten, including removing my legal guardianship of my children, disallowing unsupervised visitation of my kids, paying inordinately high legal fees that were whimsically incurred, and probably some other bad things.

I have a hearing on November 12. Right now that’s all I know until I speak with my new attorney.

Also, my previous counsel WITHDREW as my counsel during the hearing on Wednesday. Nice, huh? I was asked at the last minute if I allow that. What am I supposed to say at that point??? That was, if I remember correctly, mere minutes before they put the cuffs on me and escorted me to jail. I’m just grateful that I was allowed out of jail after only one night.

I met a nice woman from Region 8, the Rankin County mental health and drug treatment place, who listened earnestly to me, I felt, and gave me some good advice. It was nice to have an honest hearing with *someone* finally. And, to be fair, the judge did allow me to make a statement in court, which I was grateful for. Again, it was at the end of things and after everyone had already made up their minds about things behind closed doors. . . .

So, I’m hopefully meeting with my new counsel today to see where things stand. It is asking the court for jail time for me and at one point asked to have me COMMITTED TO A PSYCHIATRIC FACILITY.

And throughout this process, no one has questioned the baseless, slanderous charges made against me; no one has bothered to speak with my current therapist; no one has bothered to speak to anyone who knows me, despite the fact that this whole farce is centered around my character. I am basically being railroaded. And I haven’t seen my kids since around September 23, despite the fact that I have harmed no one, not just since our divorce, but prior to it.

It’s amazing what can happen to someone here without any proper defense, based on pure hearsay, without any evidence of abuse, to an otherwise law-abiding citizen.

This is what I get for bargaining in good faith for a divorce, against my attorney’s advice, trying to make things painless for HER, not myself, and in return I get to pay a huge amount of child support, based on a salary I had three years ago (talk about insane), with meager visitation of my kids. Hopefully there is such a thing as karma.

Advice to anyone going through a divorce: no matter how things might appear, no one is your friend. Don’t give an inch or they will take miles. I can now teach a master class on this subject. πŸ™‚

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πŸ“Ί 2020-10-18 @ 00:06 @ http://hourback.tv/ , I’m streaming The Patriot (2000), live! Won’t you join me??? Why not???πŸ“Ί

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2020-09-29 @ 05:00; New episode of “I’m The Only Person Listening To This”; Listen now at http://anchor.fm/hourback/ ; πŸ™‚πŸ•ŠοΈπŸ•‰οΈπŸ’œπŸŒπŸŒŒπŸ‘½πŸ––

https://anchor.fm/hourback/episodes/Karen-has-served-me-with-a-restraining-order-to-protect-her-and-the-boys-from-myself-ek9jsa

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My complaint

From: Karen Nabavi <karennabavi@gmail.com>
Date: Sat, Sep 26, 2020, 10:32 AM
Subject: My complaint
To: Nabavi, Ali J. <ali@nabaviconsulting.com>

Ali,

I have filed a complaint with the Rankin County courts. You will be officially notified Monday. There is a hearing on Wednesday morning at 9am.

The boys are safe.

I don’t intend to have any further communication or contact with you until the hearing.

I truly believe that you need help. I hope that you will consider reaching out for it.

Karen

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I was supposed to have the boys over for a measly little sleepover that she lets me have with them once per week and then this happens….

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FYI, I went to The Meadows in order to try to save my marriage, and now I’m watching One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest on Netflix. :-))))

I’m having all kinds of special feelings right now. :-)))))